I believe engagement sessions help my bride and groom on their wedding day, which is why I include engagement sessions in all my wedding packages. I know that especially with couples from further away, an engagement session is not always practical, so I allow couples to trade the engagement session for an extra hour of coverage at their wedding if need be.
I wasn’t always this way. Three years ago, I pulled engagement sessions from my basic coverage, offering it as an add on only, namely because I started worrying I was torturing the guys, who oftentimes didn’t consider an engagement session one of their top five ways to spend a Saturday afternoon. But I got over that, and now see the engagement session as the couple and my first chance to collaborate, to decide where all we’ll go shoot, to interact about photo ideas, what we like, what we don’t like, to get a sense of one another. It is important to me to be a known person to my clients, so that they trust me and will let me in, so that I know them.
Meanwhile, of course, we get fun pictures at engagement sessions. I always shoot some traditional ones suitable for the newspaper engagement announcement and digitally submit those for my brides and grooms to papers of their choice, bundled with their engagement announcement. I also let the bride and groom choose two images for the front and back of double-sided wallet sized cards to put on the tables at the reception. Some brides and grooms put their mailing address on these, some put their gallery link. Everyone loves them, and I print 250 of them for free as long as my info on them somewhere. The images below are a couple of samples.
This blog post is the first of a unified blog project started by my friends on the foundation workshop forum, where each week we plan to blog about the same topic on the same day.
